i've always been afraid of letting go

When someone shows you who they are the first time,

BELIEVE them.

Cut him off. Let him miss you.

Best way to not get your heart broken is to pretend you don't have one.

Never put your happiness into someone else's hands.

Almost everyone you know, without exception,

has their heart all wrapped up around

someone who will never love them back.

Everyone says you deserve better but no one is willing to give it to you.

It's funny how people change with alcohol in their veins.

You see who they really are. You know deep down inside

there's nothing hiding behind their eyes.

It's just them without any lies.

I hope one day you realize you let your ticket

to happiness go, I hope you realize that

when it comes to this love, there are no more chances.

The people with the biggest hearts have suffered the most.

you can't make somebody love you

but you can show them what they're missing.

Even though you may want to move on with your life,

there's always something holding you back.

In order to be free, we must learn to let go.

Release the hurt. Release the fear.

Refuse to entertain your old pain. The energy it

takes to hang onto the past is holding you back

from a new life.

I said yes to another man

because you didn't ask me.

Anyone can easily walk away from somebody else.

Nobody is forced to stay; we all have choices.

But the real test is if someone would rather stay with you,

even though walking away is so much easier.

& it all comes crashing down...

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you have to do what you feel is right

The best feeling in the world is

knowing you actually mean something to somebody.

It's the scariest thing ever when you realize how much

someone means to you. When it hits you, I mean

really hits you, all these thoughts and questions rush

through your head at once. A sad emotion even starts to

creep on you slowly inch by inch as you start to wonder.

What if for some reason it didn't work out? - How

are you possibly going to live without them?

Someone that was once a stranger is now the only person

you know like the back of your hand. Someone you

never thought you'd love, now owns your entire heart.

Whether you like it or not. Someone you once lived without,

you realize you can't live without & you now wish you

could hold onto forever.

People are in your life for a reason

& I don't think you can ever stop caring

about the people you've been close to.

You're letting her think she has a chance

and nothing in the world is worse than

thinking you have a chance, when you really don't.

I do honestly believe that people enter our lives for a reason.

That everyone who we meet, who forms an impression

has something to teach us. Everything that happens to us

is an experience, and because of that it can never be bad.

An experience can only be good because it all serves

to shape the person that we are, the person that we become.

How many times do we let someone back in our lives,

even when they've walked out a thousand times,

just because we love them too much to let them go?

When someone leaves you,

don't hope and wait for the person

to come back. Feel good about yourself

and say, "Thanks for giving me the chance

to find someone better than you."

Don't stress over what could have been;

if it should have been it would have been.

Don't wish. Wishing is just wanting something not to be the way it is.

Things just don't work out sometimes.

That's one of the simplest explanations in life.

You can dwell on why something that didn't

or shouldn't have happened, but it did.

So just move on. Most people want reasons

why things are the way they are,

but you are simply holding on to the past

when what you really need to do is

to move forward. When things don't work out,

find something that will.

The easiest way to stop giving a fuck is to never start.

People who make us happy, are never the people you expect.

There's a good chance you don't like us

but an even better chance we don't care.

It's a fearful thing to love what deatch can touch.

Respect people who find time for you in their busy schedule.

But love people who never look at their schedule when you need them.

The guy I dream of doesn't exist,

& if he doesn't exist then I'll never

die of a broken heart.

I wish I was the girl someone can look at and say

"My life has changed since i met her."

Just because I don't talk about my problems,

doesn't mean they don't exist.

Someday someone might come into your life

and love you the way you've always wanted.

If your someday was yesterday, learn.

If your someday is tomorrow, hope.

If your someday is today, cherish.

I wish he would realize that I'm here

for the long run if he allowed me to be.

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.

If he doesn't, nothing can make him stay.

You can't waste time over missing something in the past.

Life changes, people grow up and grow apart,

and you accept that. Yet, you still can't stop thinking of

how good it used to be; afraid you'd never experience it again,

afraid you've already lived it and already lost it.

Just because you don't like it doesn't mean someone else won't.

The one God has meant for us is going to be the hardest to get,

the hardest to keep, and the hardest to accept

because through all that love will grow stronger,

bonds will become thicker, & the future will become more clear.

Love wasn't made to be easy, otherwise we wouldn't end up with the right person

-- we would end up with the first one who comes along.

By struggling we single out the wrong ones & realize who really is the one.

I don't need any "sometime" people in my life.

You're either with me or you're not.

You can't just come and go as you please.

I'm afraid to get close to someone I end up liking.

'Cause I'm afraid that later on, they're gonna

become a phone nmber I'm no longer texting or calling,

they're gonna become a picture I have to take off

of my phone or computer, they're gonna become

someone my parents or friends ask me about & I have

to tell them "We're no longer talking", they're gonna

become someone I see & walk by me as if we never met.

There are three types of people in the world:

those who make things happen,

those who watch things happen,

and those who wonder what happened.

I've learned that well...Life isn't all it's cut out to be.

It has it's ups and it has it's downs. But, you

have to embrace those ups and downs and learn from them.

You can't just sit back and mope and make people have pity for you.

You have to put those things that are hurting you aside and live.

You only get one life, and that one life isn't that long.

You have to do everything that comes your way.

Yea, you might get embarassed, but in a month...no one will remember.

You have to do what you feel is right.

You can't worry about other people.

Just live life how you would want to live it.

Don't follow examples, make them.

Let people follow in your footsteps.

Sometimes, you just have to dance around your room & look like a fool.

Other times, you just have to sing as loud as you can, even if you do sound bad.

You haven't lived until you have danced around your underwear.

And most of all...you need to laugh.

Never go a day without laughing, or at least smiling.

It doesn't matter if you have had the worst day, if you just laugh,

everything will be ok. For the most part, just be you.

Don't listen to others. They are going to make fun of you.

They are going to tell you that you are stupid.

But that is their opinion. It only becomes true when you start to believe it.

Usually the things you are most afraid of, are the most worthwhile.

Sometimes you have to hurt someone's feelings

just to let them understand how it felt when they hurt yours.

Say what you mean, but don't say it mean.

It's funny. Your muscles have a certain memory about them.

That's why we can tie our shoes or play piano without looking.

But then you spend a long enough time with someone

and your bodies memorize each other, you know?

The warmth of your back, the pace of your heartbeat,

your tickly eyelashes, and the way your fingers

would curl in sequence when I used to play with your palm.

Another person is like moving to a new country

where you don't know the language, it's a scary thing.