thank you, you made my mind up for me when you started to ignore me

Go ahead & leave me; I'm prepared this time.

Sometimes, you just have to try not to care

no matter how much you do

because sometimes you mean nothing

to someone who means everything to you.

Don't lose yourself in attempt to hold on to someone

who doesn't care about losing you.

My mind has fucked me over more times

than any man ever could.

I hope you miss me, but don't you dare try coming back to me.

I wish you missed me as much as I miss you.

Sometimes I wish I could look into the future

& see if the tears and unhappiness are worth it in the end.

"Deciding to get back together with someone is

a complicated decision. Just remember that

the person who, not long before, looked you

in your beautiful face, took full stock of you and all

your qualities, & told you that he was no longer

in need of your company."

~He's Just Not That Into You

Be thankful for every heartbreak, for they were planned.

They come into your life just to reveal another layer

of yourself to you, and then leave. Their purpose is

to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit,

show you your obstacles and addictions,

break your heart open so new light can get in,

make you so desperate and out of control that you

have to transform your life. And you do.