Tuesday, March 29, 2011

how do you find the words to say, to say goodbye?

Same way how you walked into my life & became someone important,
slowly but surely you're becoming just another person in my life...
What am I supposed to do when the best part of me was always you?
What am I supposed to say when I'm all choked up & you're ok?
I have nothing to lose. I already lost you.
Your mistakes, they won't chase you.
But your lies, your tricks, & the people you hurt,
they will be around for a while.
It's better to forget & be happy than to remember & be sad.
"We don't pick who we fall in love with
& it never happens like it should."
-No Strings Attached
It hurts to love someone when we can't tell them how we really feel
because sometimes we get hurt without them knowing.
We get jealous when we have no right to feel that way.
We want their time even if we are not in the position to demand for it.
Although our hearts are breaking in silence,
we still continue to love them somehow in this hurtful love,
there is still hope of having simple moments with them
even if it means just being a friend.
Go for someone who is not only proud to have you,
but will also take every risk just to be with you.
The one who really wants to be with you will make effort, not excuses.
The only reason why it's always the one you love that hurt you
is because if you didn't love them, you wouldn't care.
Sometimes you have to act like you don't care even when you do care a lot.
You come to the point of giving up when the hopes that used to keep you going
becomes the reason for you to stop believing.
Just because we don't talk anymore,
doesn't mean that I don't care about you
any less than I did before.
Choices are important.
You have this day, which you'll never live through again.
It's your choice to what mood you are going to live it.
The greatest irony of love;
loving the right person at the wrong time,
having the wrong person when the time is right
& finding out you love someone right after
that person walks out of your life.
And sometimes you think you're already over a person,
but when you see them smile at you,
you'll suddenly realize that you're just pretending
to be over them just to ease the pain of
knowing they will never be yours again.
For some, they think that letting go is one way
of expressing how much they love that person.
Some are afraid to see the one they love being held by someone else.
Most relationships tend to fail, but not because the absence of love.
Love is always present.
It's just that one was being loved too much
& the other was being loved too little.
As we all know, the heart is the center of the body,
but it beats on the left. Maybe that's the reason
why the heart is not always right.
Most often we fall in love with the person we think we love
only to discover that for them, we are just passing time,
while the one who truly loves us remains
either a friend or a stranger.
So here's a piece of advice:
LET GO when you're hurting TOO MUCH,
GIVE UP when love isn't ENOUGH,
& MOVE ON when things are not like before.
For sure there is someone out there who will love you even more.
When you have something you really love but it causes you pain,
God is just testing you to see if you are strong enough to hold it.
What is really yours will eventually be yours.
& what is not, no matter how hard you try, will never be.

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